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A woman must know that her man cares

A woman must know that her man cares

With rare exceptions, I have found that specific rules create more problems than they solve. B...
How To Avoid Craigslist Casual Encounters Scams

How To Avoid Craigslist Casual Encounters Scams

There are a lot of spammers and scammers working the W4M and Casual Encounters sections of Craigs...
How to Be Hot: Women Should Smile More, Men Less

How to Be Hot: Women Should Smile More, Men Less

  Women should look friendly and approachable to get the most favorable attraction response fr...
One Night Stand Candidates

One Night Stand Candidates

You may sometimes ask yourself: Is there a way that I can tell if a girl is down for a one night ...
Senior Dating Stips: A Status Update

Senior Dating Stips: A Status Update

I thought I'd put up a little post with an update on my status. I'm going to keep the blog up...
The Relationship Between Love and Commitment

The Relationship Between Love and Commitment

“I don’t quite know How to say How I feel Those three words Are said too much They’re not en...

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While Godwin's admonitions are worth perusing, the real danger in the *respectful distance* philosophy is drift. In drift, changes are slow - almost imperceptible at time. Still, positions shift.

 

That which once seemed so solid becomes fragmented. A man finds himself making love to a woman that he no longer loves. The once madly in-love couple becomes respectful roommates - perhaps even sleeping in separate rooms. The fear of true intimacy grows.

He didn't say all women are the same, he said "Every woman is unique."

I liked the article a lot. What he says is true for me.

If you actually bothered to read my guide on One Night Stands, then you'd know that the instant a girl gives me resistance when I'm sexually escalating, I go completely cold on her, and it has never failed me. Like I've said in the past: never reward bad behavior; in other words, if the girl gives you a negative response, give her a negative response in return.

I know I made several mistakes, the biggest one was probably trying to pull off a seduction while high. I would really appreciate any insights and advice on this, especially pertaining to how I might go about establishing a casual sexual relationship with this girl while at the same time not hurting my status in the group as a whole. I have the girls number, and she has mine, but I don't feel like I want to call her, except maybe to ask about the party. Any advice on how to recover from an unsuccessful seduction?

But I am so high that I can't sleep, and too high to really do anything else, so I go back out. At some point I tell her to put her number in my phone so she can give me details about the party she had mentioned to me earlier. As she is putting the number in, I stand by her and start caressing her in front of the 2 guys. Then I give her a kiss after she is finished entering it in.

You sound very European and it sounds like he’s a responsible kid. That makes me wonder if European families have some of the same problems the American families have with teen drinking. hmmmm

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